Dardanelle Missionary Baptist Church — Dardanelle, Arkansas
Pastor Chuck Trusty — Sunday morning service, October 25, 2026 Give Thanks · Lesson 3 · Romans 1:21
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Unthankfulness Is the First Step Down — Thanksgiving Is the First Step Up
Sunday morning • Give Thanks, Lesson 3 • Romans 1:21-25 • Luke 7:36-47 • 2 Timothy 3:1-2 • Exodus 16:15 • Numbers 21:5 • Philippians 2:14 • Psalm 50:23 • Psalm 103:2
This is the lesson the way it was preached on Sunday morning - near word for word. The “uh”s and the starts-over are taken out; the sentences are left the way they were said. Bible verses are printed exactly as they read in the King James. Anything marked GOING DEEPER was NOT preached on Sunday morning - it is extra study for anyone who wants to dig further.
Let’s see. Romans 1:21 will be where we’ll start. And if we have time, we’ll do Luke chapter 7, 2 Timothy chapter 3, and Exodus chapter 16. Romans 1 and 21 will be our text. Then time permitting, we’ll look at Luke chapter 7, 2 Timothy chapter 3, and Exodus chapter 16.
Now, we’ll begin here in Romans chapter 1. And Romans is a letter that the Apostle Paul wrote to the church in the city of Rome. And the first chapter in the book of Romans tells how a world that once knew God decided to turn its back on God.
Romans 1:21. Now you’ll notice there are the first two signs of trouble. They did not glorify God, and they were not thankful. Bible says:
“Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.” - Romans 1:21 (KJV)
And as a result of not glorifying God and not being thankful - notice what happened. They became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
Now the first sign of trouble was not something big, like, oh, they committed this awful crime. It was first of all not bringing glory to God, and not saying thank you.
Now to not bring glory to God, that actually means in everyday language not putting God in the place that He should be. You know, we get a nice piece of furniture, we put it in the living room - we don’t leave it out in the yard in the rain. Well, to not bring glory to God in everyday terms - we don’t value Him enough to put Him in our life where He should be, but we leave Him out in the rain. And things happen to relationships that are not maintained. Well, the same thing is going to happen to our relationship to God if that relationship is not maintained. That’s not going to be God’s fault. It’ll be our fault. But that kind of gives us an idea of what not bringing glory to God means.
And you know, what about going through life and not ever telling God thank you? Unthankfulness is the first step that we take downward in - well, we’re talking about our relationship with God. We’re talking about the fellowship that we have with God. We’re not talking about earning salvation. We’re not talking about maintaining salvation. We’re talking about the type of relationship that we have with God after we are saved. And unthankfulness is that first step that we take away from a good relationship with God. And on the other side of the coin, thanksgiving - thanking God for things in our life - that’s the first step that we take toward a meaningful relationship.
UNTHANKFULNESS IS THE FIRST STEP DOWN — THANKSGIVING IS THE FIRST STEP UP.
The staircase down
Now, in past lessons, we’ve already stood on that first step. We’ve taken that first step up toward a better relationship with God. Do you remember what that was? Remember we talked about the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. If we don’t properly respect God - if we leave Him out in the rain, out in the weather - we’re not putting Him where He should be in our lives. We’re not bringing Him glory. That kind of ties together. Putting God where He should be - that’s our first step up. While Romans chapter 1 and verse 21 is explaining the first step that we take away from a meaningful relationship with God.
Let’s look at verses 21, 22, 23. And you’ll notice as we read this, you’ll see two failures, and then you’ll see four results which come from those two failures. And each one of the results, if you will, is taking us further and further away from where we ought to be. That’s leaving what we’re supposed to value out in the rain longer and longer and longer. You get the idea. Romans 1 beginning in verse 21:
“Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful;” - Romans 1:21a (KJV)
Okay, those are the two failures. But - and I’m adding an explanation here - because of these two things, their lives moved. They became something that they weren’t before.
“. . . but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.” - Romans 1:21b-23 (KJV)
Now, they knew God. They were aware of who God was, but they gave Him no glory. They gave Him no thanks.
And for them to become vain in their imaginations means that their thinking became empty. There was nothing of substance in their thoughts. You know, the first thing that pops into my mind - and I’m not anti extracurricular activity, I’m not anti-sports - but when you compare sports with spiritual health, which one do you think weighs the most? When we are constantly focused on things of the world - whatever it is - that’s empty. It’s meaningless. There is no Super Bowl in heaven. All right, you get the idea. Not putting God where He should be put and not saying thanks - our thinking becomes without substance. We think on the here and now, and we forget all about eternity. I got a news flash for you folks: eternity is a lot longer than the here and now. All right.
Another thing - their heart went dark. You remember, God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all. Well, for our heart to go dark, that means we prefer the shady areas as opposed to being out in the exposure of the truth.
They claimed to be wise and became fools. I don’t know, you could fill in the blank there. They relied on their education. They relied on their good behavior. They relied on their wealth, their strength. Okay? They put their confidence in the wrong area. And as a result, they were not able to protect what they considered to be valuable. They were wise - they thought they were doing the right thing - but end result, they were foolish. They lost it all.
And then at the very bottom, they worshiped birds, animals, images of men instead of God. Bottom line there is, as far as their lives were concerned, God really didn’t exist. Okay? They had totally replaced Him.
Now you see, a person who stops thanking God is not a person that stops worshiping. They are a person that simply starts worshiping something else. The paycheck - I’ve got to make more money. My truck - it’s less than what I want. I really need something else. And my desires and what I want are really what is fueling my life. He begins to worship the gift instead of the One who gave him the gift. Notice Romans - stay in chapter 1 - verse 25. This says it pretty straightforward:
“Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.” - Romans 1:25 (KJV)
The god of youth and pride
Now, in my youth, I had similar thoughts. All right. And I suppose the best example I can give you is to explain and admit - confess - some of the thoughts that I had when I was younger.
When I was younger, I was strong. I thought I was smart. And I’ve always basically known the difference between right and wrong. So what I realized I was guilty of - I traded the God of heaven for the god of youth and pride.
Now, obviously, I knew that I needed God for the big things. But you know, I honestly thought I could handle - if you have a list of 1 through 10 of things in life - I had a pretty good handle on items 1 through 6. I could do that myself. But I did leave 7 through 10 to God. I needed God a little bit. All right. Well, the point is, if God did less for me, then I had less to thank Him for. And that is just being honest. That’s how I began to slip in my youth.
Let’s look at Luke 7:36-47. We’re going to kind of read through that rather quickly. We don’t want to get bogged down and be here till noon. Luke 7 beginning in verse 36 - talking about Jesus:
“And one of the Pharisees desired him that he would eat with him. And he went into the Pharisee’s house, and sat down to meat. And, behold, a woman in the city, which was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at meat in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster box of ointment, And stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment. Now when the Pharisee which had bidden him saw it, he spake within himself, saying, This man, if he were a prophet, would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him: for she is a sinner.” - Luke 7:36-39 (KJV)
Like I’m not. Okay?
“And Jesus answering said unto him, Simon, I have somewhat to say unto thee. And he saith, Master, say on. There was a certain creditor which had two debtors: the one owed five hundred pence, and the other fifty.” - Luke 7:40-41 (KJV)
Two people owed this person money. One owed a great big huge amount, and the other one owed a lesser amount.
“And when they had nothing to pay, he frankly forgave them both. Tell me therefore, which of them will love him most? Simon answered and said, I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most. And he said unto him, Thou hast rightly judged. And he turned to the woman, and said unto Simon, Seest thou this woman? I entered into thine house, thou gavest me no water for my feet: but she hath washed my feet with tears, and wiped them with the hairs of her head. Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet. My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment. Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little.” - Luke 7:42-47 (KJV)
GOING DEEPER · SHE LOVED MUCH BECAUSE SHE WAS FORGIVEN MUCH
Not preached on Sunday morning - extra study.
Notice verse 47 - and notice the two debtors in verses 41 through 43. She loved much BECAUSE she was forgiven much. Her love was the result of forgiveness - it was not the price of forgiveness, or what it took to get forgiven. The man who owed five hundred pence did not love his way out of that debt . . . he was forgiven first, and the love came after. That’s the same order for us. We don’t thank God in order to be saved - we thank God because we have been.
Now you see, I’m going to tie this back to the staircase we’re talking about. The downward drift starts with a thank-you that never actually got said. “Well, I do need God, but I don’t need Him as much as” - and then we pick out somebody in our mind - “I don’t need Him as much as so-and-so does.” You know, that’s an easy trap to fall into.
The church is not immune
The church is not immune. You know, we think as individuals, okay, well, I need to avoid this, I need to avoid that. Well, last time I checked, the church was made up of individual people. And if our collective attitude is over here where it shouldn’t be, then the attitude of our church is also over here where it shouldn’t be.
Look at Second Timothy chapter 3, verses 1 and 2. Now, what we have here is Paul’s list of what people will be like in the last days. And you’re going to notice some of the things on this list - oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, that’s right, that’s right. But I want you to notice that unthankfulness is also on this list. And I’ll remind you as we read this - just because there’s several things on here that we’re not guilty of, or we think we’re not guilty of, that doesn’t mean that we’re not on the list. Because all of us could use a bigger dose of thankfulness.
“This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves,” - 2 Timothy 3:1-2a (KJV)
Oh, this is just super important to me, preacher. And they leave God out in the rain.
“. . . covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,” - 2 Timothy 3:2b (KJV)
Unthankful is right in there in that list. Now, you know, once again, just because we can name some things on this list that we’re not guilty of, that doesn’t mean that we’re not on the list. Because if we were honest, unthankfulness is something that is going to peg every single one of us.
Let’s look at Exodus 16 and verse 15. Now, what we’re going to read about here is the manna - the food, the sustenance that God gave to the children of Israel as they were wandering in the wilderness. Now, at first - oh, this is good. But they kind of got used to it. And notice how their attitude went from, “Oh, this is a miracle from God,” to, “Oh, yuck. I’m not satisfied with this.” Verse 15 - talking about the manna:
“And when the children of Israel saw it, they said one to another, It is manna: for they wist not what it was. And Moses said unto them, This is the bread which the LORD hath given you to eat.” - Exodus 16:15 (KJV)
Now, okay. Let me ask you this. We can all look at circumstances or things in our lives and think, “Well, I wish that circumstance was different. I wish I had a blue one instead of the red one.” Well, does God ever give anything bad? Does He ever make a mistake - “Oh, I should have blessed you this way, I should have given you that”? That’s not the way it works. God loves us enough to die for us. I think sometimes we forget He loves us enough to give us the best. Now, not the best that the world has to offer, but what’s best for our own spiritual health. All right.
Look at Numbers 21 and verse 5. After the newness began to wear off of this manna - after the paint began to fade on that new truck, all right, whatever - when the shingles needed to be repaired on that house - you get the idea.
“And the people spake against God, and against Moses, Wherefore have ye brought us up out of Egypt to die in the wilderness? for there is no bread,” - Numbers 21:5a (KJV)
Wait a minute. What happened to the manna?
“. . . neither is there any water; and our soul loatheth this light bread.” - Numbers 21:5b (KJV)
Now when we go get some light bread from Kroger - okay, well, that’s white as opposed to wheat. Well, the language here indicates that light bread, the way it’s used here - their attitude - this bread is worthless. That’s actually what it means. So they weren’t just dissatisfied - it’s the same old thing. They are saying that God’s blessing is worthless.
Well, for them, the miracle of this daily bread - and again, I want us to not forget that this daily bread that they got tired of was God’s provision for them. Folks, your house, your job, everything that you experience in life is God’s way of providing for you. When we complain about God’s provisions, we’re just as guilty as these Israelites were complaining about the manna.
What drift looks like in church
Well, what does drift look like in church? Well, how about prayers that gravitate toward more asking and less thanking? How about - oh, we always pray at mealtime, preacher. Well, is that prayer more of a habit and less about actually being thankful? What about - well, let’s see, you ask me what God did for me today. Let me think a minute. I’ll come up with something here in just a minute. Okay. When’s the last time you took a breath? Whose air was that that you breathed? Okay, it was God’s. And He can turn that spigot off just any time. Sometimes we forget that.
Now, I guarantee you, I could start over here and I could ask every one of you, tell me something that you’re disappointed that you didn’t get or didn’t go your way this week. You could rattle something off without having to think for a second. But then if I started over and asked, “Tell me something that you’re thankful for that God did for you” - we might have to stop and think a little bit longer. You see, our focus has become - our focus is toward things with no substance. Our focus should be toward eternity, not the things of the world.
Young, healthy and bulletproof
Now, I remember when I was younger - again, I was young, I was healthy. I looked at myself as practically - I use the expression bulletproof. Okay? I mean, there’s not much that’s going to affect me, not much that I’m not able to do. Well, I took all of that for granted.
We see old and sick people every day, but do we ever stop to thank God for our own health? And instead of thanking God and trying to take the time to comfort those who basically just get in our way - “Would you move out of the way? I’ve got places to go, people to see, and you’re slowing me down. Move over.” Instead of thanking God and trying to comfort those like this, do we just plow ahead with our current projects? Oh, and these projects, folks, they just have to be done. The world’s going to end if I don’t get whatever it is done by Friday.
Do we ever come to the realization that, you know, I might just be too busy? I might need to X off some of those projects. If we’re too busy to comfort the weak, if we’re too busy to help that old person that’s slow in front of us, then we’re just too busy.
You know, what about - talking about projects - you know what the most important project any of us could have or should have? Well, first of all, our children should be our most important project. Now, I’m not saying, “Oh, we need to take them to this activity, to this practice, to that.” No, I’m talking about the spiritual health of our children should be the most important project that we have. And right alongside that - well, my children may be grown and gone, but what about that spouse? You know, the happiness and the joy of your spouse - that should also be way, way up there on the importance of our projects.
But you know, talking about the slow people right in front of me - “I’ve got places to go, just get out of my way” - almost overnight, I became one of the slow ones who used to be in my way when I was younger. And you know, the sooner we agree with God that this attitude is and was not healthy, the better our lives will become.
You know, the projects that we have in life - and I know we’ve all got stuff that we need done. You know, the oil needs changing, the house needs painting - the list is endless. But the list will always be there. There’ll always be something on the list. We’re never going to get it all accomplished. But you know, our time to count our blessings in life - that does have an expiration date. And I wonder - do you know how close you are to your expiration date? Do you know how close you are to not having another opportunity to comfort that one that’s in front of you that’s slow, that’s crippled, that’s always in your way?
You know, our children grow up and leave home. There’s an opportunity that’s going to expire. Our spouses - they get old, and they’re eventually going to die. Rarely do a husband and wife die at the same time. The opportunity to put a smile on that spouse’s face and a twinkle in their eye - that opportunity has an expiration date. You know, the only thing that lasts is something that’s done for God.
Now, Philippians chapter 2, verse 14. Once again: unthankfulness is the first step down. Thanksgiving is the first step up.
“Do all things without murmurings and disputings:” - Philippians 2:14 (KJV)
To murmur is to complain.
UNTHANKFULNESS IS THE FIRST STEP DOWN — THANKSGIVING IS THE FIRST STEP UP.
The staircase runs both ways
The glory that they held back in Romans 1:21 - now that glory is something that can be given back to God. We can take that piece of furniture out of the rain and put it in the house. We can take that car and we can put it in the garage where it’ll be protected. Notice the 50th Psalm, verse 23:
“Whoso offereth praise glorifieth me: and to him that ordereth his conversation aright will I shew the salvation of God.” - Psalm 50:23 (KJV)
Whoso offereth praise - that’s worship - glorifieth me, God says. And to him that ordereth his conversation aright - to the person who arranges their lifestyle properly - that’s a blessing.
And you know, we can take the first step up the staircase that we’re talking about this morning right now, in the pew, without moving an inch. We do that by remembering what God has done. Now, King David said it this way, the 103rd Psalm, verse 2:
“Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:” - Psalm 103:2 (KJV)
Well, to remember is the opposite of forgetting.
So our homework this week is a murmur check. By that, I mean - are we a complainer? And what I want us to do is every time we catch ourselves complaining about something this week, I want you to stop and thank God for something specific about the very thing you’re complaining about.
“Oh, I hate this truck.” Well, does the truck start? That’s a blessing. Okay. Is the truck paid for? Well, if it is, that’s a blessing. “Preacher, I just don’t like my job very well.” Well, wait a minute. Do you have a job? Are you getting a paycheck? I don’t think I’ve ever had a job that I really liked. I like cleaning carpets, and I absolutely love preaching - but I don’t consider preaching a job. That’s just life. Okay - blame Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. You’re probably not going to like your job, but you do make money.
You know, how often we catch ourselves complaining about something will tell us just how far we’ve begun to drift.
The thank-you I owed
All right, I’m out of time. So I’d ask our musicians to come forward. We prepare for an invitational hymn.
You know, I remember going back to when I was younger - I complained. I was 24 years old before I got married. All right. And ever since I could remember - oh, probably 15, 16, to 24 - I knew what a fairy tale romance was. And I kind of got aggravated, you know, going through college and everything. It’s like, I’m never going to find a woman, a girl, a wife that’s fit to marry. Okay, there was a lot of candidates, all right, but they were not good people - and I was patient. I didn’t really have any choice. I mean, what are we going to do? You know, the famous Sally Sue - I go out with Sally Sue one, it’s not going to work out. I do Sally Sue two, it’s not going to work any better than Sally Sue one. So what do I do?
But when God finally answered my prayer, I owed Him a huge, huge thank-you - for loving me enough to answer my prayers, and for being patient enough with me, okay, to continue working with me, continue teaching me the value of a good spouse, or anything. I didn’t just figure that all out myself.
Point is, when we find ourselves complaining - “Well, He’s not answering me fast enough for this, this, or this” - God never gives us anything bad. Everything He does is for our benefit. And that’s where faith comes in. “Well, yeah, but God, I can do this better.” Well, you know, you couldn’t. Okay, that’s the humility part. If you did it, you’d mess it up. There’s enough things in my life that I did my way that just messed up. Am I the only one? I don’t think so. We learn over the course of our lives just to back up and consider.
UNTHANKFULNESS IS THE FIRST STEP DOWN — THANKSGIVING IS THE FIRST STEP UP.
401 in the big book.
GOING DEEPER · WHICH STEP DID WE TAKE THIS WEEK?
Not preached on Sunday morning - extra study.
Which step did we take this week - down, or up? If somebody asked us at the supper table tonight to name one kindness God showed us this week, could we answer without stopping to think? Complaining about the truck? Thank God we have one. Complaining about the kids? Thank God for each one by name. The staircase runs both ways, and the next step - down or up - is the one we take this week.




